Thursday, October 23, 2008

Qualities of Friendship ^^


This topic is abt what i'm going to study in my Global Studies... I like this kind of topic cuz it matches wif my blog's topic but not just likes that but i just like it. It's so TouchY ^o^ Well, what is the most quality u think your close friends are?? And wat is the most quality u looking for the most? Because one person is not perfect and don't have all the things u want from them...
Okay here is the some qualities, let's me share :
~ Common Interests: Two friends become close frn because they share the same interests and they gonna talk sth of their particular things nonestop. OR they would do sth or go somewhere of their interest. They would spending time together ^^
~ Loyalty: Faithfulness is wat a bestfriend should have. When yr friend experiencing in a difficult time, be there for him or her ^^
~ Empathy: It is the ability to experience what your friends's feeling, share the pain and the joy together ^^
~ Dependablelity: Friends should count on each other for everything. But make sure you not gonna get the benefit of the other. Friends are not only avaible for favors, they welcome them ^^
~ Reciprocity: Friends is proved by both people involed. Reciprocity is giving and getting in return, which means i love you and i share my story to you and i get in return to what i giving you. We feel empathy for one another ^^
~ Forgiveness: True friends understand that each is not perfect. They willing to accept mistake and say SORRY for it, so why don you just forgive them:( at least we used to be closed frn. Don let it goes, but hold it on :(
~ Caring: Underlying all these qualities is caring. It is caring that inspires friends to be loyal, empathetic and dependable ^^
WOw how can i decide which one is the most?? -.- Cuz all of them are stick together like the elements of the sea= (salt+water). So tell me yours?? :D

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'd choose de "common interest", finding best friend is just like finding a boy friend. u need to share some interest in order to talk together and get to know more abt each other. Thanks for ur comments in ma blog, u've got a nice blog here. :)

Barbie said...

Ah Hah... here you are, now I know what you was trying to say lol... then do I have to repeat myself again here?

I would pick receprocity, the binding affection of me and the one whom I care a lot for, my frns. I have the happy feeling inside of me to know that the one whom I love dearling love me the same way I do :)Frnship is to nurture, and continue growing... yeah, it's a big part of ourlives. sth real and rare... sth that I can't imagine if to live without.

Jupiter said...

Hmm Hard to decide.

For me I am not sure, I would like my friend to have some few of them.
loyalty and Reciprocity are what I have in my mind to be one best friend of other. Moreover, to me, I am not a fake to say I care my BF, cuz i always do. it is more important that I help my BF not because I expect them to return me or owe me the same thing i treat them, but because I am loyal to them and willing to share n help them at MY BEST.
SO my ans is more likely to be LOYALTY.Just like one khmer proverb, we know true friend when we are in difficult situation. But still it hard to distinguish between Loyalty and Receprocity. lolz.

Anonymous said...

Vicheth: Meaningful nas nor, hehehe. Good that u posted for us to see. Hope there's more to come.

Anonymous said...

this topic is great but it's hard to say abt Best Friend....
Believe me, No One love u as u love urself even ur sweet heart..:D
that's my comment.